The other day I had this selfsearching moment and I realized, everything is a once in a lifetime experience. Think of your first love, the first time you did something for yourself, your first heartbreak, or the first time you had that fabulous drink and fabulous dishes, or the first time you visited a nightclub or a restaurant.
My point being, everything in life, at least in my life, I’m going to stop defining them, everything in my life is a once in a lifetime experience.
Think of that trip you have been dying to make, but you’re scared to do it on your own. Fear is there, fear will always be present, don’t let it take over your life. Let fear make you accomplish things you never thought you’d be capable of.
As I now see everything in my life as a once in a lifetime experience, I live a life much more furfilled. I realize there are no unimportant moments. Everything is a once in a lifetime experience, from the examples I have given to so much more.
And what I also know for sure is that people can surprise you. Sometimes these people man up and be the person others always knew they could be. And sometimes they don’t and that’s okay too. As you grow your own person, you create your own identity.
You have the power to change your life around, YOU. And this is something I have been struggling for so long. I felt ‘not enough’ for so long, not good enough, not pretty enough, not smart enough. Until this day came and I matured. I matured into a woman not afraid to be herself, to live with herself.
I’m in a good place now, I feel safe, I do things for me, not because others want to me. And everything else will evolve somehow, I’m a firm believer of that.